Tailored to individual needs, weaving together healing modalities, to give an appropriate session, including Tantric Holistic Massage, Angelic Reiki, Tachyon healing crystals, Elemental blessings and Spiritual Guidance. The whole of the body receives sacred caring touch, with compassion, integrity and honour. Shirleyann works organically and intuitively, to assist you to move forward in life more juicy, compassionate, expansive in your creative joy and abundance. Creating a space for "expanding in joy" to "expressing in joy"
Shirleyann's background is in body and energy work, (and accounts!) from qualifying in holistic massage in 1991, teaching it by 1994, to Angelic Reiki teacher, through to dedicating as a Priestess of Avalon in 2009 with lots of different development in between! She works as a facilitator, with a heart centered, intuitive and compassionate approach. Incorporating, sacred holistic massage touch, spiritual guidance, coaching, exploration, healing release, integration and nurturing. Her sessions aim to offer powerful, transferable techniques, and rituals with quality support. She creates a sacred, safe, caring (and fun!) environment.
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Tantric massage is one of the massage experiences that is highly associated with erotic massage. An erotic tantric massage as the name suggests is a type of massage that focuses on sexual pleasure using tantric practices. The fact that tantric practices are used means that the massage achieves more than just sexual pleasure.
Authentic tantra massage has many benefits aside of sexual pleasure, including deep relaxation, ejaculation control, re awakening arousal and healing from any past sexual challenges.
A common misunderstanding regarding tantric massage is that it involves sexual intercourse. Contrary to this belief, tantric massage does not involve penetrative sex at all. However it does include a lot of sensuality and arousal for the client.
Tantra massage involves total stimulation of all the erotic zones in the body of the receiver and can be very stimulating, often resulting in orgasm.
Tantric massage is an experience that goes beyond attaining sexual benefits and satisfaction. While sexual gratification is one of the potential outcomes of the massage, the benefits go way beyond that. The massage will approach the body as a divine temple, with the intent of touch being sacred and nurturing.
Tantric massage has the capability to heal intimacy, relationships and sexual wounds and blockages.
Both women and men receive life changing experiences especially regarding their sexuality.
For women, it is all about receiving sensual touch from someone who has no ulterior motives while for the men, it is receiving intimacy without the pressure to perform. Overall, it is a life changing experience for both men and women.
Tatric massage involves touching of every part of the body, including the intimate and erotic zones such as the lingam (penis) and the yoni (vagina). When the massage is begins, the masseuse will give sensuous attention to every part of the body, from head to toe.
The tantric massage session involves active participation by both the giver and the receiver of the massage.
The receiver must stay present to the sense of touch and breathe deeply and slowly. The giver on the other hand massages the receiver with long and fluid strokes similar to those of a Swedish massage. The strokes are light and highly sensual and aim to distribute energy throughout the body. All the sensitive areas of the body are massaged in this way, stimulating energy flow.
One of the major characteristics of tantric massage is the fact that there are no goals.
The massage takes place in a relaxed environment that makes you feel as if you are in trance where physical boundaries seem to dissolve and time limits are forgotten.
Tantra massage is often associated with the massage therapist being naked. In authentic Tantric massage this is not always the case. Often times, the practitioner will be dressed in a sarong or light garments conducive to offering a sensual massage.
It is not uncommon for the therapist, through personal choice, to be semi naked during a massage session or indeed to offer a complete naturist massage experience.
However, it us up to the individual practitioner to decide upon their personal dress code and it would not be good client practice, to cajole the therapist into removing more garments than he or she is comfortable with.
To facilitate your choice of therapist for your tantric massage experience, the therapists who usually offer a naturist massage experience will have it indicated on their profile.
As the client, you can choose to be naked or retain your underwear. You can also choose to be covered during the massage with a towel or sarong or to be uncovered. You therapist will ask you about your preferences before and during your session.
Prostate massage is also known as prostate milking. It has been around for centuries and has been used majorly as a part of holistic healing of the prostate. At the very basic, prostate massage is the massaging of the prostate tissue in the male body. The prostate is located adjacent to the rectum. The terms massage and milking are used simultaneously to describe the prostate massage process. However, milking is more inclined to removal of prostatic fluid, whilst prostate massage refers more often to the actual massaging of the prostate, either from within the anus or externally on the perineum.
Prostate massage is considered as a sexual practice as the prostate is the male G-spot. Stimulation of prostate can lead to achievement of an orgasm in the male. The prostate massage procedure can be carried out using fingers or devices (sex toys) that have been developed specifically for this purpose.
Prostate massage can take place internally or externally. Internally, the giver inserts their finger or the device being used for the massage into the rectum of the receiver through the anus. Care must be taken not to irritate the delicate wall of the rectum. Once inserted, the giver looks for the prostate tissue and stimulates it using different types of soft motions. Externally, you can massage the prostate by pressing against the perineum. This might feel more comfortable and less painful for some men.
If you find the finger too short to reach the prostate or you do not want to use a finger as the giver, you can use devices (sex toys) for this purpose, such as prostate massager. These devices will give light repetitive and circular motions that stimulate the prostate. Proper lubrication should be used with the equipment in order to eliminate any friction that could cause pain. Also, it should not be thrusted as this will only cause discomfort, not to mention the risk of injuring the anal passage.
A four-handed massage is the ultimate indulgence, where you have two therapists and two pairs of hands performing a synchronised sensual dance on your body. Your mind will find it near impossible to track their four hands moving over your body, giving you the opportunity to sink into deep relaxation and pleasure. You will be held in a safe and nurturing space so you can experience each stroke moment by moment without any expectation of a final destination.
The format is generally the sAme as tantra massage, just double the pleasure.
In these simple, practical yet profound sessions, your practitioner will guide you in the loving practice of giving and receiving tantric massage to and from each other.
Allowing you to connect more deeply from your hearts this practice encompasses so many aspects of your relationship. On one level you'll learn about different kinds of techniques to enhance connection, erotic touch and sensuality. On another level you'll have different way of seeing each other and being seen and accepting each other in a loving caring way. And it's also fun and pleasurable and I find it deeply moving. If you'd like to take your great relationship to another level this will enhance your love for each other and give beautiful value to your precious time shared together.
This is an excellent way for couples to reconnect and strengthen their loving bond. You will massage him together with the practitioner and then massage her together. It can be either a naturist or clothed massage experience and your relationship boundaries are respected at all times.
Some guidance about tantric massage will be given at the start of the session but this is an experiential tantric massage, rather than a coaching session.
Tantric BDSM is ideal for couples who have an interest, curiosity or nervousness about exploring any aspects of BDSM. Maybe "Fifty Shades of Grey" has left you or your partner with questions or desires? Our unique training guides you through the options of using Tantric BDSM techniques as a means of attaining immense pleasure, deep connection and learning. Our course includes practical advice about how to enjoy Tantric BDSM in a safe and responsible manner.
Every Tantric BDSM experience is unique, just as your relationship with your partner is unique and as such, your teacher will weave together a bespoke class that suits your needs and desires but always includes the following: